I think it’s time to pen what is in my mind about how I feel my partner should be like and how I’ll be to her.
Like I said to my first and only date.
This is just the three things that I said as expectation. We like looking at faces, especially if it’s happy. I should feel happy whenever I see their face. I guess it depends on person and not face but you guys are getting it right. I think most girls are pretty so yeah that will do.
But good soul, thats too fucking important. Like really really, she is the one who will be guiding light of the family and who the kids will learn from the most. By good soul, I mean not anyone pavam but someone who does what is right even if it isn’t an easy decision. She will care for not just me and kids but for people around us. Like someone who wants the best for others and someone who sees and helps other. We as a couple can do good deeds together only. So we need to be on the same page. else it will be like I wanna do something nice for someone and she will be like not supportive. Can’t even imagine!
Smartness, well everybody is smart but living with someone dumb is so damn irritating. Like we would have to explain everything. People should be smart enough to think ahead and do the best thing. Even if someone is a good soul, they can do the right thing only if she is smart. Also kids will be smart too right.
I would love it if the girl is a god-loving person. Like is a good person and all but also relies on god and trusts in him. I am trying to get closer to god and this is one journey we can take together.
And the family. It should be the real deal. Like I was excited to get into relationship with a girl cause I felt their family was kinda awesome. Like cool brothers and sisters. Would be fun right. So yeah, fun loving, adventurous and simple family. Moreover, Appa wanted me to marry a simple girl from a poor family so that a family’s situation gets better.
Also the girl should be interested in games and being fit. I love to have company to play badminton and workout. So yeah many things to do together.
Oh yeah another thing, super adjustable and not complaining about things and just making the most of the moment
Girl should have qualities of my fav person like caring really deeply and make up for the shortcomings like open communication. And the qualities of the other sister like talking about the lil things and being really caring.
So yeah, I am not gonna marry unless I fall in love. I’d rather be single, I just need to take care of my health – mental and physical, have a good social circle and go on many trips. Be a good uncle to the nieces and nephews