I am 27 years and 5 months old now and I will have to find a girl, marry her and start living a happy life pretty soon. So yeah I’ll miss my chill out tension free life. Being a kid in molauntys home literally.
Anyways I have no idea how things will turn out and I am not having any huge expectations too. Arranged marriage is a bitch but it can be the best thing that can happen too.
So yeah, I am pretty free now. Only thing I have on my plate is the job, which I hate and will probably be out pretty soon. I need try finding a new job. I am ready to move to any city. I can even go abroad. I am a free bird.
All these years, I had people to be there for. But now they are all good. No one’s gonna miss me if I go off-grid. I can do whatever I want without letting anyone know. But yeah there isn’t much time for that. May be there is.
The hard deadline for getting married is Feb 14, 2026 and short deadline in Feb 14, 2025. I’ll be 28 and 29 years old respectively. I wanted to marry at 25 or 27 but I get to do it at 29.
What all needs to be done prior to that. I need to figure out to what to do in life and have a promising career path figured out. I need to hustle. I need to give my shot at IAS. Basically I need to hustle like anything.
Here on my motivation and inspiration would be to make my parents proud and to make my girl happy. I am doing well in life, it makes life happier for us and our kids. So yeah, Lets go Aikku!
There will be tons of expenses related to wedding, 20 lakhs oke is the minimum. I need all my friends around. I need to keep in touch with my friends and be there for their happy times. btw who will dance at my wedding?
Lil sis says I need 30LPA to get a good bride. Will I reach there in 2 years? She says I can my jumping firms. Upskill and jump. Be really good in soft skills and hard skills. Learn to speak really well. Learn to write to. Both these are needed for IAS exam and interviews
So yeah job part. Gotta work towards it everyday. Learn new things, apply for opportunities. Nothing is holding me back, I can reach for the skies. What I miss is the push from people around, but there are a few still.
“Push yourself because nobody else is going to do it for you”
Also, like my sis says “We should be doing the things that scare us” . Yeah, we aren’t gonna learn or get anything from doing easy things.
So what I need to focus on till September is:
1) Prepare well for CFA exam and pass with flying colours. I am pretty broke, I don’t wanna lose the 1 lakh.
2) Try to find a good job with 20LPA in a good organisation. A role where I would be shining.